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August 2009
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Know
When to Break the Rules
By Steven L. Anderson, Ph.D., MBA
Many people that I coach are trying to
make their dreams come true, but they run into road blocks
in the form of rules that prevent them from actualizing
these dreams. It’s my opinion that leaders realize that
rules are sometimes made to be broken and they know when to
do that. In my opinion leaders know when to think outside
the box and that’s what makes them leaders.
There are obvious examples of leaders
who engage in social change, like Gandhi and Martin Luther
King, who broke the rules to show that the rules were
unjust. That is great leadership because these types of
leaders risk life and limb to make their point. But I am
actually talking about leaders who are deeply passionate
about making their dreams come true and they are not going
to let some silly rules stop them.
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Honest Communication: Give It a Try
By M.J. Clark, M.A., APR
I recently spoke about authentic
communication with a group of professionals at 40 Plus,
a job search training organization. We discussed
confrontation, and how important it is to share with others
how we feel when they say or do things that negatively
affect us. A day after the presentation, I received an
e-mail from Stan Sanders, former news director for WCMH-TV,
who took part in the discussion at 40 Plus.
He shared with me a great example of how a manager can
be totally unaware of how their actions affect their staff
until someone gives them honest feedback that can help them
change. With his permission, I want to share his story with
you in his own words.
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The Blue Dryer
By Steven L. Anderson,
Ph.D., MBA
I’m not what you call
a detail person. In fact, my Dad used to call me a “95
percenter”. That is, I’d do 95%
of the job and then go on to something else. I actually
like this about myself, but I can’t tell you how many
times this quality has caused me heartburn.
My wife, Char on the other hand, is quite detail
oriented. As you can imagine, this has caused quite a few
heated discussions between us or as I like to say “growth
opportunities”. But the other day, something happened that
was really quite hilarious because of this difference
between us. I want to share it with you because I think it
illustrates several points about leadership that we all can
learn from.
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